How to overcome your anxiety about the message reply?
Nowadays we all are looking for a reply or response from who mostly we loved.
Yes, we don’t need to feel if it’s not an important person. But the time the message always, we do, who we love most.
I really go through this path. Not in once it’s been more than once.
I also really do this same. Because sometimes I send any message to someone and he/she didn’t send me back within a minute or even seconds, I feel, why they didn’t send a message?
That time we are like a detective. Seriously. Then our mind tells
He/She didn’t wake up?
Then suddenly mind said, No, they woke up already because today they have worked. Most of the day they wake up early and I know they first take the phone and check their messages, then what happen about my message?
He/she is working now maybe they will send back within an hour. And after an hour check the message and think, why no response?
Again mind will say… something going on, maybe I did say anything wrong at last night?
He/she reads the message, but no response, then we feel suddenly hawoo… it’s not about at last night talk or anything.
Then mind said, they read your message, but no response, why? They ignore or they have other important more than you?
He/she didn’t reply after two hours or until evening, then we think omg it’s too long, so, type our emotional messages at least 5 or 6 may be more than.
Then we beg them or ask them to please call me back
Then we call them. May be, they cut the call, then we think why?
Then we take a decision I don’t want to talk anymore, I didn’t think that you will do like this. So much pain you share at one time.
After that He/she call you back and said I am sorry I was at work meeting or with family I couldn’t make it. Sorry.
Then what next……
Of course we say that it’s okay, no problem, But you know what at least you can send a message then I can understand. But any way you call me, that’s fine.
This is life, Just think like this. If again any problem come into your life thinks easily, don’t imagine in your own way, it will make life complicated. May be most of the relationship going like this. But is that person really loves you they will call you or message you one day. So, don’t chase them every day if they didn’t send any reply on your message. May be they have some problem in their life. After they will come to you. If they won’t come to you, don’t feel bad, because your love is important for someone else. The perfect time the perfect one will come to you.
Don’t take any decision on when you angry or sad. Keep this in your mind.
Good luck. God bless you.